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Magandang araw po sa inyong lahat.
My name is Marisol, and I am writing this on behalf of my father, Ramon, who is 63 years old and has been a jeepney driver along the Cubao-Montalban route for thirty-one years. Anyone who has ridden that line in the mornings probably knows him. He is the one who refuses to leave the terminal until the last student has a seat, even when it means he loses a whole trip.
Last February my father started getting tired in a way that rest did not fix. He would come home, sit on the step by the door, and stay there for an hour before he could manage the stairs. We thought it was his age, or the heat, or the long hours. In April he collapsed at the terminal and was brought to the district hospital, and that is where we learned that his kidneys had been failing quietly for years. The doctor used the words "end stage" and I did not hear anything else she said for a long time.
He now needs haemodialysis three times a week. PhilHealth covers a portion of the sessions, and we are grateful for it, but the coverage runs out well before the year does. Each session past the covered ones costs us between four and five thousand pesos once the medicines and the transport are counted. The arteriovenous fistula surgery he needs so that the dialysis stops damaging his arms is another sixty thousand on its own, and the vascular surgeon has already told us that waiting makes it worse, not cheaper.
We have sold what could be sold. The jeepney went first, in May, which is its own kind of grief because it was not only our income but the thing my father built his whole life around. My mother has gone back to taking in laundry. My brother left his second year of college and is now working nights at a warehouse in Valenzuela. Between the three of us we can cover the household and about half of the treatment, and the half we cannot cover is the half that keeps him alive.
So I am asking for help, which is not a thing our family has ever been good at.
If you want to help but the platform fee bothers you, you can send it straight to my GCash instead, the number is 0917 555 0134 and it is under my name, Marisol. My tita also says people sometimes prefer a bank, so the BDO account number is 0045 8827 3391 under Ramon's name. Any amount is a help, truly, and it goes to the same place either way.
Every peso goes to the hospital directly. I keep the receipts in a folder and I will post photographs of every single one, the way I have been doing on my own page since May. If my father gets his fistula and his sessions for the rest of the year, I will say so here and I will stop asking. If something changes, I will say that too.
Thank you for reading all of this. Thank you for even considering it. My father does not know I have written this, and he would be embarrassed by it, so if you see him on the route please just let him drive.
Maraming salamat po.
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November 9, 2026
Week 6: the fistula is scheduled, and a thank you
Update from Marisol, sixth week.
First, the news everyone has been waiting for with us: the vascular surgeon has scheduled Tatay's arteriovenous fistula for the 14th. It was supposed to be November. Because of what all of you did in the last three weeks, it is now next month instead, and the surgeon was blunt with me that the difference between those two dates is the difference between his arms recovering and his arms not.
He has completed nineteen dialysis sessions since I posted the campaign. The pattern has settled into something we can almost plan around now: Monday, Wednesday, Friday, six in the morning, four hours on the machine, then a day where he mostly sleeps. He has started reading again, which he had stopped doing entirely in June, and last week he asked my brother to bring him the newspaper instead of just the sports page. Small things, but I notice all of them.
The receipts for weeks four through six are photographed and in the folder. Total for the period: forty-one thousand two hundred, which covers seven sessions past what PhilHealth carried, the erythropoietin injections, and the transport. I have kept the running total on the same spreadsheet since May and I am happy to show it to anyone who asks.
A number of you have messaged asking how to give more directly because you were worried about fees. I appreciate the thought more than I can say. If it is easier for you, just scan to pay using the QR code that my cousin made, or transfer to the PayMaya under 09175550134. Several people have already done it that way this week and it arrives the same day.
What is still ahead: the fistula itself, then six to eight weeks before it can actually be used, and dialysis continues throughout that whole period at the same three-times-a-week rhythm. So the need does not stop with the surgery, it just changes shape.
To everyone who gave, and to the several of you who gave more than once: my father knows now. My brother told him in the second week because he could not keep it in any longer. He cried, then he got annoyed at me, then he cried again, and then he asked me to write down every name so he can thank people himself when he is stronger. The list is four pages. He is working on it slowly.
Salamat po sa inyong lahat.
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Dina D.
Nov 9, 2026, 03:01 AM
Ate please don't delete this, I know the rules. Ang G C a s h ko po is 0-9-1-7-5-5-5-0-1-7-2, under my name. Kung ayaw niyo dito, okay lang, I understand. I just want to help and the fee thing is bothering me. Basta alam niyo lang na nandito ako.
Dina D.
Nov 9, 2026, 03:01 AM
Sending love from Cebu. Message me if you need help with anything, I mean it. Hindi kayo nag-iisa dito.
Dina D.
Nov 9, 2026, 03:01 AM
I know this family. The dialysis centre is the one right beside BDO on the main road, past the market. If anyone is bringing food for Tatay Ramon on a Monday, go before six, he is usually out by eleven and sleeps the rest of the day.
Dina D.
Nov 9, 2026, 03:01 AM
Transfer to my sister's account instead if you want, she is the one handling the hospital runs and it saves a step. Account number is 1234 5678 9012 under Liza. Praying for your Tatay, ate. My own mother went through the same thing in 2019 and I remember the Monday-Wednesday-Friday rhythm very well. It does get easier to plan around, even if it never gets easier.
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